User blog comment:Kogath/Monster Hunter 4 Ultimate for the Nintendo 3DS/@comment-23230538-20141023213213/@comment-4212769-20141027201847

@Focatron

Sorry, I still had the comments of Dragùn in mind and somehow associated these words with you when I read the dispute at the end of the thread. I'm deeply sorry for putting words in your mouth.

Most of this was directed to Dragùn in this case. (I know I messed up the timing with this...)

However I still have something to say to you: I didn't see the whole conversation because (probably) some comments were deleted but if you got offended and you offended back (the "douche" situation you mentioned), IMO, both parties are at fault for this. One for starting this and the other for keeping it up. You apologized so I guess it's ok now (yet I miss other's apologies).

So, to solve up the other problems, let's look at the arguments. With your "What's wrong with complaining?" statement you're only partly right. Yes, you have the right to complain about the product you bought, but you shouldn't complain about every bit of detail and also appreciate it and the way you express it doesn't give the feeling that you do. It sounds like "Capcom is an idiot for not doing it that way.". And that's the problem that the others have with your comments.

And at some point you should let go of the complaining and be happy with what you have. What would you say when Capcom said now "If you are that disappointed by this and you complain about it so much we shouldn't release it in the west at all."? Again it's the form of complaining that makes the difference. If you say "There's no reason for Lunastra to not be in MH4G/U." and "They made the mistake to bring back Monoblos AND Diablos" it sounds like it's something that lowers the game's value hugely and it's more or less a offense calling "Capcom lacks common sense in this.". While it's right that Capcom needs criticism it's a pain for them to always get an innuendo that they are wrong and stupid (of course you will say now "It's their job!" but just pretend to be one of them and read every day what they made wrong).

Your statements about how bad it is that Monoblos isn't online is a much better approach and doesn't sound like that. It has an real argument and isn't just a inpersonal thesis. You really associate it to yourself. And that's the kind of statement that really helps better than any numb row of facts. If you say "I'm disappointed that Lunastra isn't back." it helps them a lot more than the annoying heartless complaining. It's complaining too but it doesn't sound like an attack to their competence.

I hope you understand what I mean. ^^